Sunday Reading 16 March 2008
March 16th, 2008 by Richard CockrumAnother Sunday. The week cycles through from beginning to an end that marks a new beginning. It’s gray outside my door today, but the signs of spring abound. Robins have returned. The first spring bulbs are showing small shoots of green. Temperatures have started to climb. The rabbits in the yard are surely feeling excitement at the thought of new food since they have almost completed stripping the bark off the apple limbs we left for them last fall. The fish in the pond swim about the top as the ice has melted completely for the first time in weeks.
The last two weekends I’ve been home. The projection equipment broke down at the theatre. I ordered what I thought were the necessary parts. I was wrong. So this week I’ll be bringing in a tech. Interestingly, the equipment breakdown happened right as my personal equipment was recovering from a bout with one of the viruses that seems to be so prevalent in the US this winter, a bout that made me feel more ill than I’ve felt in a quarter century. My son is getting married in a couple weeks. I have time to finish preparing. I haven’t seen him in over a year.
I’ve been feeding the geek side of myself by learning PHP and exploring a new blogging platform, Habari. I even started a new blog devoted to these subjects, Sag Rising, and transferred my software site, Cockrum Publishing, to the new platform. The Ambridge Family Theatre site will probably be transferred sometime in the next few months.
Periodically in our lives we go through times of major change. We roll along, one day following another, happy in our routine, then we conspire with the rest of the world to create a nexus, a point where we choose to remain as we are or to shift our focus. The road we’re travelling may start to become a bit rocky. Unsettling events may arrive from the dream around us to shake our shoulders a bit. Or we may find ourselves facing a choice that we’ve always wanted, but when actually facing it we feel fear and doubt as we ask ourselves, Is this too good to be true?
In The Parable of the Paradigm Karen Lynch talks about paradigms, the set of beliefs that lock us into one approach to living, and how they can be changed.
Dianne Sylvan makes a similar point in The Rest is Still Unwritten. Our paradigm, our world view, is a personal mythology that, while, it may not be easily changed, yet can be.
In Not Giving When You Know You Should: A Haunting Story Stephen Hopson tells a story about a decision point in his life. We’ve all been there. We’ve all had our lives shaped by such moments. Each decision closes off paths and opens new ones. Each choice defines us, but even more, if we’re awake, tells us who we are. Since he tells us this story, this event is one that has served such a function for Stephen.
Stephen, by the way, has just learned that he won in the category of Most Life Changing Moment in the Be the Next Best Selling Author for his inspirational video of a dream come true on YouTube. Go Stephen! I’m looking forward to the book.
At the root of all this is the belief that we create our own reality. Our minds, our bodies, our worlds are the objective results of what we believe. The concept is meant to be an empowering one, yet we often use it to try to avoid the responsibility, the freedom, and the joy into which it can lead us.
Christine Kane did a wonderful series on how we can use the idea that we create our own reality to keep ourselves in our self-created cages. The first article is The 6 Snarkiest Misconceptions about the Law of Attraction:#1. Follow the links at the top of each page to read the whole series. Chances are you’ll see where you’ve done each of these at some point in your life. I know I did.
I’d just like to leave this quote from Barbara Ling about knowledge.
Knowledge is the only thing you can freely bestow again and again and still not lose a jot of it yourself
Wisdom is another story.
Be well.
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March 16th, 2008 at 5:19 pm
Rick:
First of all, best wishes for your son’s upcoming marriage! Congratulations. You must be thrilled beyond belief - way to go!
Thank you for not only sharing my “haunting story” but also mentioning that I won the video competion in conjunction with the “BeTheNextBestsellingAuthor.com” competition. It’s all surreal and I’m very excited.
Thanks for being an arduent supporter of mine - it’s greatly appreciated.
March 16th, 2008 at 8:20 pm
Hi Stephen,
Thank you. I get to do it again in June when my daughter gets married.
I can imagine things do feel surreal about the competition. Winning $20,000 worth of aid writing your book is fantastic. You are to be congratulated, my friend.
March 16th, 2008 at 9:39 pm
Rick:
It goes to show that when you take a leap of faith and go for it with gusto, you never know what destiny will bring you.
Thanks for your everlasting support.
March 16th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
March 17th, 2008 at 6:28 am
Hi Richard!
Thanks for quoting me - I really appreciate it! And do I ever agree with you regarding
Wisdom is another thing
So is ‘common sense’, I’ve discovered (she said as she raises her 4 kids….
)
Best wishes,
Barbara
March 17th, 2008 at 6:35 am
As another who has raised four kids, I know exactly what you mean.
Fortunately, they did as much to raise me as I did to raise them.
March 19th, 2008 at 12:54 am
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March 19th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
Hey Rick,
sounds like you have some big changes coming up! Is the son getting married the one who lives in Denver?
Just to let you know I have daffodils bloomed in my yard since yesterday, the crocuses have been up for a week or two….It is Spring in the Rockies…I’m sure Denver is having it too! (however, during spring in the Rockies the snow could be back with a vengeance at any time!)
Thank you for the link to my post. It always makes my day! (even though I didn’t get back here till Wednesday, I am still very grateful!)
March 20th, 2008 at 6:54 am
This bodes to be an eventful year for sure, Karen. Two weddings, a son coming home from the service, events at the theatre and online. Whew!
The son getting married isn’t the one in Colorado. It’s the one in Florida. He should be here tomorrow. It’s the first time I’ll see him in over a year. I’m looking forward to it.
I would have enjoyed seeing your daffodils. They haven’t quite made it here, yet. But, the sun is shining - a rare occurrence in Pennsylvania in the winter.
You are, as always, welcome for the link.
March 20th, 2008 at 1:22 pm
I posted some photos on my blog…take a look, very beautiful.
Your family is all over the country! Enjoy the time together!